Saturday, December 14, 2013

Right hook, left hook

No one ever said it'd be easy, but that it would be worth it. 

Life.    

Every aspect of life, every ounce of the future is really unpredictable. But in order to find out what lies around the next corner, you have to just live. Getting stuck in rut or even lost in an old, familiar routine,  can dampen the perspective of the one chance we get to do life.


The chance to find a career. 
The chance to fall in love.
The chance to marry.
The chance to populate.
The chance to laugh. 
The chance to cry.
The chance to change.
The chance to remain the same. 
The chance to fall.
The chance to dance.
And, the chance to forgive, not only others, but yourself too.


The choice is yours. You are given life, what you do to fill it's time is truly up to you. Sometimes to find who you really are, you need to experience and/or embrace the thing some fear most. Change.

Change is sometimes or almost always, going to be the beginning to your next chapter. You live and live and live the life you are used too and most comfortable with, and then BAM, change appears.

Change isn't always a bad thing. Change opens up new doors and opportunities you may never thought existed. But, depending on where you are in your journey, change may be absolutely detrimental and extremely devastating. It may be so bad, you may just think your life as you've ever known it, is over. 

Hello, perspective. 

Perspective is literally someone's reality. And someone's reality, IS THEIR LIFE. (see where I'm going?) The way a person perceives change, will affect the next chapter of their life.

The way we perceive anything in our world, will become our reality which will in turn, be seen through how we live our lives. 

When life throws that right hook your way, our perception of whatever that blow is, will make it or break it. If you come back with a left hook, essentially with a perception of acceptance, your transition will be easier. 

With the one life we have to live already begun, it is our job to not dwell on what was, but what is yet to come. Although we don't have total control over out future, it is with great importance to face trials and even happy times, with a positive outlook and a grand perspective. 

Don't let the fear of change, keep you from living life. It is too precious to exhaust all your efforts trying to live your life according to others wishes or standards. 



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